I was recently wondering why so many of the inspirational writers I come across these days are advocating self-care. I wrote about it last month and have a few more self-care tips to share with you this month too.
It seems to me that the “Keep calm and carry on” spirit marked those of us who grew up in the years after the war. Our parents lived through it and rationing only came to an end a few years before I was born. Making do was the order of the day and carrying on in spite of adversity was seen as almost saintly. “Looking after Number One” (i.e. yourself) typified selfishness in a bad way.
Thinking about all this brought to mind one of my favourite books, Bill Bryson’s “Notes from a small island”. In describing his much-loved adopted country, Bryson observes that the British have sayings like “Mustn’t grumble” and “Let’s make do and mend”. The latter was the title of a pamphlet issued by the Ministry of Information during World War II.
He also says – and this part always makes me smile – that it’s a shame that communism was left to the Russians when the British would have managed it so much better! For Brits, going without is second nature; they are great at pulling together in the face of adversity; they don’t mind queuing; they accept rationing and have “a natural gift for making jokes about authority without seriously challenging it.” He asserts that the British would have taken communism “in their stride, with good heart and wihout excessive cheating. In point of fact, until about 1970 it wouldn’t have made the slightest discernible difference to most people’s lives.”
I wonder if he would be of the same opinion if he were writing today? And I wonder if all this goes some way to explaining why some of us find it so difficult to take care of ourselves? It’s not a concept we grew up with – quite the reverse! I hope some of the tips below will help.
Have a great month
Nia move of the month – Elbow Strike Back
For Elbow Strike Back, use the opposite hand to push on your fist, in order to drive your elbow back behind you.
What I’m reading
Here are those self-care tips, courtesy of Cheryl Richardson:
20 ridiculously simple ways to live longer better
- Upon waking, stretch your body in some fun way for five minutes.
- Drink half your body weight in water (in ounces).
- Refuse to rush. When making commitments or appointments, put space in your calendar in between.
- Look for one thing in nature that astonishes you.
New 5-week blocks of Nia classes have started at Keep Fit Darlington and at the Pioneering Care Centre. Two more weeks of the present block at Bishop Middleham.
Full details on the Classes and Events page.
Unfortunately, the Ageless Grace class at Bishop Middleham wasn’t sufficiently well-attended for it to continue.
Saltaire Day of Dance
Saturday, 13th May, Victoria Hall, Saltaire, BD18 3JS
Exercise your brain and body by trying out a form of dance you’ve never tried before. Everything from Argentine Tango to Charleston and from Disco to Swing.
There’ll be Nia with Lynette MacFadden at 12.30, and I will be doing a beginners’ Irish Set Dance workshop later in the afternoon.
Full details of all dance workshops.
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